The stories you tell yourself about the world are the most powerful predictor of how you will act. Often, we learned these stories, when our life was not in our control. When we're young

Let me take you through the five steps that people take to make a quick decision and act. 1. We have these stories, schemas of who we are, our identity,

People often think that Stability, Homeostasis, and "Control" is the goal of a "Successful" Life. I'd like to counter that.

To me, False Confidence is the "If you…" Confidence. If you have a certain type of relationship, money, looks, career, car, friends, degree, house. ​If you…(put your own thing here).