When you fully delve into the Stories of what you are "demanding" from your partner as opposed to the energy that you have the ability to Control - Your Own - then it becomes easier to genuinely and empathetically feel secure in your Self and then to make honest requests from your Partner.
Why do people do the things they do in relationships? If you're like most people, you believe it's your partner's fault (and it just might be).
But the question is, how can you better deal with it, even if it is your partner's fault? Can you work on Your Stories, on your Beliefs that are your responsibility?
If you do, you can then better deal with what is - and not the Stories or Beliefs that are adding and piling onto the situation.
Then, after you've worked on your Self, your Stories, then adding ,the skills of communication, can help you feel more secure in your Self and within the dynamic of your Relationship.
Discover the Real World Impacts and Transformations these programs can have on every Relationship in your Life.
How to Be Authentic Without Being an Asshole: How to Communicate with those you care for, in a way that says, you actually care, without losing yourself
This 12-Week One-on-One Program is designed (mostly for men), to be able to foster a better relationship within themselves and then to be able to pull from that more secure place within themselves to better communicate and express their emotions, to those they care about the most.
This Program has the Ability to Change Your Relationship Dynamics Beyond anything you may have tried before.
From Anxious Attachment to Secure Attachment in 16-Weeks.
Overcoming an anxious attachment (that starts when someone is very young), can be one of the harder aspects when it comes to dating and for being in healthy and happy relationships. Often times, the only way to do so is to be lucky enough to find someone that has the compassion, time, energy, and empathy to be able to help you feel more secure in your relationship. But if something goes awry, it can feel like going back to square one.
With this program, you're allowing yourself to find the Parts of you that are overly anxious and give yourself the Power to heal them. This way when you enter into a relationship, you are coming at it from an inner place of Security and Safety, which has the power to change all of your relationships going forward!
J Damien provides you with everything you need to make changing your Relationship Dynamics one of success.
These are the best methods to allow to feel whole, safe, and secure within yourself.
Once we get there, it's all about learning the skills of Non-Violent communication to be able to transform your relationships, while staying true to who you are.
Have a question in the middle of a day?
Did something unexpected happen and you need a quick 15-minute call to get you back on track? This is all included with both of these programs.
There is a general template for these 12-Week or 16-Week programs. First we work on your most pressing problem, to ensure that you're not overwhelmed. Then we get to the Core of these programs, to ensure you're never in this same position again.
What's the mother of learning? Repetition.
These daily lessons, not only give you a reminder of what you've learned, but give you small tasks that help show you, to yourself, that you have what it takes to make the changes you're making last.
J Damien's first book talks about why most change methods fail (No Bullshit Change), and what to do instead.
In his second book, How to Be Authentic Without Being an Asshole, he discusses the ways in which communication breaks down within a person, and how until they can take responsibility for their own emotions first, healthy communication can remain elusive.
Both books are due in Early and Late 2024, respectively.
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This book discusses why so many people struggle with change, and what to do about it beyond the logical things that only work on rare occasions. (You're not a better or worse person because you have more or less "self-discipline" than someone else).
Changing your Implicit Associations is how change actually works, and this book will give you the tools to change those things, making change much easier.
This is a book of hard-earned wisdom through countless stories of fuck-ups in my own life. In sharing the mistakes, and the inevitable lessons, I learned along the way, will help you to transform your self and the way you interact with the people you care about.
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When you can trust your Self to give you what you Need first, then it becomes easy to change the dynamic of your relationships.
Tomorrow, next week, next month, next year is going to come either way (fingers crossed)...but the questions are:
1. Are you going to be at a place where you feel good about yourself in your relationships, or will you be going through the same issues?
2. Are you going to simply hope for change that doesn't seem to be coming, or will you take ownership of it?
3. Can you feel Confident and secure in who you are and your ability to communicate in a way that others can receive openly?
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